Why a Guy’s Heartbreak is worse than a Lady’s.

By Freedom Sunrise News

Heartbreaks are normal life’s phenomenon that people must experience at one point in time or another and must/should be handled or managed with care, maturity and wisdom. This is very important in view of its negative consequences. Such consequences could be personal, family-wise or societal.

Heartbreaks, otherwise known as betrayal of trust or rejection could be in business or human relationship terms. It often happens when the heartbroken least expected it, thereby making him/her to want to respond in a negative manner. But only the matured and wise at heart will either respond in a civilized manner or keep mute and let it be.

In an intimate relationship between a man and a woman  where true love is their watchword it is not uncommon to see either of the party breaking the heart of the other and walking away from the relationship, due to reasons best known to them.

While both the man or woman is so pained being heartbroken from their lovers, the man is more devastated, especially if he is so committed and faithful to the relationship, because naturally men are egoistic in nature, and to many of them, (except those who have Christ in them) harm or shattering of their ego is like simply trying to strangle them.

Most men heartbroken are often so pained and withdrawn from people around them, and for a long time keeps dwelling on the past, thereby increasing the intensity of the pain. Even when his fellow friends try to keep him company and make him forget his sorrow, they can never fill the void in his soul. Only his lover will.

On the other hand a woman heartbroken, though pained, easily gets over it with the presence of her friends and family who constantly feed her ears: “Men are heartbreakers, cheats and deceivers. Worry not, he doesn’t deserve you. There are better men out there. Cheer up, you’ll be fine.” These consoling lines are further complimented by calls, chats and company of men, who daily pester her for friendship, and she soon forgets her pain; a privilege the men folk lack except those who are rich, handsome and naturally charismatic.

While a lady easily gets over heartbreak and even forgives the heartbreaker, the same cannot be said of guys as some are so filled with venom and pain and the urge to hit back at the heartbreakers in revenge and even go the length of rendering her eternally useless. Stories abound of ladies who are driven into full blown insanity by their would-be husbands or lovers simply because these ladies either jilted them or tore their hearts into pieces. There is the story of a lady who till this day roams the streets of a particular city and its environs, stark naked, raving mad. The writer of this piece is a living witness. Sources have it that she broke her would-be husband’s heart and jilted him. Devastated by the shock and pain, the guy resorted to the help of a diabolical power to render her useless to herself and her family, thereby striking her with everlasting madness. The sources further revealed that the padlock that was used to lock her sanity was thrown into the river. Vague and untrue as it may sound or seem, it buttress a point: heartbreaks can be disastrous both to the heartbreaker or receiver. Stories also abound of men who have killed their lovers or themselves simply because they were heartbroken.

It is instructive to caution therefore that guys and ladies should do all they can in order to avoid heartbreaks in their relationships.

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